July 5, 2014 As we celebrated my son's 16th birthday with our community of loving friends all around at a poolside BBQ, there was a moment when I felt pressure, energy and heat move up through my heart into my throat and spring tears to my eyes as we all stood lighting sparklers in a circle surrounding him performing a ritual that Sasha created to honor him and our own journey's remembering when we had each turned 16 ourselves and sharing wisdom from that experience. He was instructed to request a birthday wish from each of us that could be redeemed throughout the year and we all went around the circle and said the gift we had to offer him that he could have at anytime, gifts of encouragement and love and phone numbers to call when he needed to talk to someone. When it came time for his request, he simply said "I would just like for you all to keep doing what you are doing by being the loving family for us that you are," and in that moment he melted the hearts of every person there and HE was a gift to us all just as he has been from the moment he was born 16 years ago!
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